With the holidays coming up, I thought I’d share a few quick tips and tricks in case you find yourself cooking for a vegan, unsure where to start. My goal is to make it easy for you so please comment below or reach out if you have more specific questions. I’m here for you.

Key substitutions - transition a mostly plant-based meal to a fully vegan meal

Chicken Stock / Beef Bullion - Consider using vegetable stock or your own mix of seasonings.

Butter - Consider cooking with oil - olive oil, coconut oil, sesame oil, etc. or plant based butter or margarine.

I like Miyoko’s European Style Cultured Vegan Butter for spreading on toast and Earth Balance Vegan Buttery Sticks for baking.

Milk - Consider using a plant based milk - almond, soy, oat, cashew, flax, hemp, coconut, rice. Bonus, you can buy these shelf stable to save room in the fridge. Although you must refrigerate after opening.

Plain, unsweetened almond milk is my go-to. I haven’t noticed much difference in brands but usually get Almond Breeze or Whole Food’s 365 brand. In coffee, or for extra creamy dishes, I prefer soy milk, unsweetened original.

Cream - Consider using canned coconut milk. If you’re having fun experimenting with these substitutions, soaked and then blended cashews work really well, especially in sauces and dips.

Again, I am pretty brand agnostic here. Just make sure you grab full fat canned coconut milk. It can often be found in the Asian cooking section. For cashews, I buy them unsalted, in bulk at Costco, because once you try using them in this way, you’re going to want a lot!

Eggs - In baking, a “flax egg” (1 T ground flax mixed with 2.5 T water, stir, let sit 5 minutes) has worked perfectly for me every time. There are also a lot of egg replacers out there that I have not tried.

For flax seeds, you can also buy them whole and grind them yourself as needed in a spice grinder, coffee grinder, food processor, or high speed blender. I use them up fairly quickly, so I buy them pre-ground for convenience. I keep mine in the fridge.

Cheese - Nothing really replaces cheese. Depending on a recipe, vegan cheese can be used or nutritional yeast can create a cheesy flavor, but really, I’d avoid these unless you’re trying to make a fully vegan meal. Most cheese eaters will likely not be fooled. In something like a cheese board, you could add a faux cheese to the board.

In a cheese board, the Treeline Soft French-Style Nut Cheeses are really delicious with crackers or toast. They are a little pricey but a real treat. The Kite Hill Ricotta is also really delicious. I personally avoid most shredded and sliced faux cheeses but Chao Original is absolutely delicious. I’m not sure where this could be used for holiday cooking but it is the only sliced vegan cheese I can eat plain and it makes really great grilled cheeses.

Yogurt and Mayo - Consider using a plant based yogurt - cashew, coconut, soy - and a vegan mayo.

My favorite is Forager Cashew Based Vegan Yogurt. I’d recommend using plain, unsweetened, and adding flavor separately. I am not a fan of mayo, vegan or otherwise, but know that this product does exist. For a dip, I highly recommend the Buffalo or Chipotle Flavored Bitchin Sauce. It’s great with veggie sticks, chips, or even a sandwich spread for left-overs day.

Thoughtful Offerings

Honest Communication - The most thoughtful thing, in my experience, is honest communication. This can be as simple as saying that it is too much work for the host and could you please bring your own food this year. We get it. If you are planning to cook some vegan meals, you can also…

Send a Text or Email or Call - Let the person know the menu and what meals are safe for them to eat ahead of time. That way, day of, you don’t even need to make a thing of it and the person can decide if that will be enough food or if they would like to compliment it with something additional of their own.

Labels - You can put a simple index card or cute decorative card next to dishes to label them. This can include all of the ingredients or just the name of the dish with vegan / vegetarian or non-vegan / non-vegetarian written next to the name.

Save a Little to the Side Before Dressing Up - This one has been huge in my experience. If you are set on cooking your veggies with butter, using a non-vegan salad dressing, or adding cheese on top of a dish, for example, simply saving a little to the side before adding the non-vegan item is hugely appreciated. Trust me, we don’t mind things plain, especially versus nothing at all, and we don’t need a huge portion.

Request a Dish - Pot luck style -reach out and ask the person to bring a main or side dish that is safe for them to eat.

Request a Recipe - If you’re open to a new recipe, you can ask if they have a favorite side, main or dessert recipe for you to try.

Use Separate Serving Dishes and Spoons - Once you ladle your gravy, please don’t put that same serving utensil in the vegan mashed potatoes.

Don’t Overthink It - So many things are naturally vegan. Apple pie, for example, is often vegan. I believe Costco’s apple pie is and could serve an army it’s so big. Having fruit out with dessert is also great. Salads often are vegan before add-ons. Almost all side dishes can be vegan pretty easily with minimal thought.

Buy a Dish or Meal - Whole Foods Market offers a pre-made two person take home vegan dinner for $40. If you know that every dish will not be vegan and don’t want to try these substitutions, know that that is fine. You may prefer this option. The vegan in your life will likely be hugely appreciative that you thought of them.

Dinner Topics - I absolutely love talking about veganism with anyone who’s interested. Going vegan has changed my life in the best way possible. That said, talking about compassion for animals, the positive impact on the environment and on my health is not something I’d like to talk about at a dinner table or prep kitchen while others are cooking or eating their turkey and stuffing. I reserve no judgement for people who do not chose to live a vegan lifestyle. Veganism is all about compassion for all. But, it’s totally awkward to talk about mid-meal. If you’re interested, definitely do reach out. Just please save it for another time. Also, please don’t apologize for eating meat or dairy. It also makes us feel awkward and it’s not needed.

Protein - Please do not concern yourself with the person’s protein intake. I assure you, they are fine. This question is the nails on a chalkboard topic for most vegans.

Helpful Definitions

Vegetarian - A person who does not consume meat or fish. They typically still eat eggs and dairy like milk, butter, yogurt, sour cream, and cheese.

When I was vegetarian, I used to say, if it had a face, I didn’t eat it. I came up with this in middle school but it was actually a pretty helpful guide for others.

Pescatarian - A person who does not consume meat but does consume fish, and typically eggs and dairy.

Plant-Based - A person who does not consume meat or fish products. A person who eats plant-based will not consume animals or fish or anything that comes from them so things like eggs, dairy and honey are off the table in addition to the meat and fish itself.

Whole Foods Plant-Based - A person who eats plant-based and avoids processed foods.

Vegan - A person who does not consume meat or fish or their products in all aspects of their lives from food to clothes, for example. A vegan would not buy a leather couch or wool dryer balls. Clothing comes up a lot in this conversation because there are so many leather and suede shoes, handbags, accessories, fur, wool and cashmere sweaters and socks, etc. But it actually extends further than this as many products from makeup and bath products to household cleaners are tested on animals. So, think of vegan, as much more than what they consume at a meal and more so what they consume in their lives. For food, it’s the same as plant-based.

Simply by reading this post, you are already showing consideration for the vegan in your life. Know that they appreciate all efforts, big and small, that you make to make them feel loved and heard.

Remember, in the end, the point of the holidays is to spend time with the people we love. It’s the gathering at the table, or zoom this year, that matters.

Together, let’s all put to rest the idea that the tofurkey was ever a good idea.